How do I reconcile having so much, so many comforts about me, with the suffering and lack of all those I see who are in need in my world?
You cannot reconcile the inequality of what you know and what you see. Let go of that notion. It serves no one and keeps you in a static place, going nowhere while filled with frustration and often despair.
Your heart, however, is already occupied with reconciliation. Go there. Go to your heart. It is in the very concern for, and desire to make right, the inequalities that proves your heart is already open, giving, and flowing - outpouring its love toward all those that need it.
Send your love, daily, in joy. For what good does it serve anyone in need to meet them with your own despair? Those who need your love, have enough despair of their own. Meet them instead with that which will lift them up. Meet them with all the joy in your heart you can offer. In that, then you offer not only love, but the gift of hope.
You, right now - yes, you who are reading this - you are the very light, and lightness, this worlds needs. You are the heart of goodness. Send the goodness of your heart to every corner of this world, exempting no one or nothing. Herein rests the ultimate reconciliation.